blog # 7

january 5, 2009
11:00 AM-1:00 PM

psarenas: loc
theolozada: philippines
theolozada: you?
psarenas: wer in phili
theolozada: davao
theolozada: why, your from phil too?
psarenas: yes
psarenas: nem
theolozada: nem???
psarenas: nem
theolozada: where is that?
psarenas: nueva ecja
theolozada: ah
theolozada: haha
theolozada: so nagwewebcam ka?
psarenas: ou
theolozada: trabaho mo talaga yan?
psarenas: no, have fun
theolozada: so walang nagbabayad sau?
psarenas: wala
theolozada: waw
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: eh pero masaya?
psarenas: ok
psarenas: nghahanap kc aq ng job dito s net
theolozada: ahhh
theolozada: eh bat webcam2x?
psarenas: kaw
theolozada: wala lang
theolozada: sinubukan q lang 2ng chat2x
theolozada: first time ko pang pumasok d2 eh
psarenas: gnun b
theolozada: oo eh
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: tagal ka na di2?
psarenas: medyo naadik n
theolozada: haha
psarenas: location mo
theolozada: naghahanap sana aq ng foreigner na kachat kaso puro webcam ang gus2
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: davao aq
psarenas: kailangan tlaga un use of webcam
theolozada: diba pagwebcam mga private show yan lageh?
psarenas: hmdi nman gzto k lng mview qng ano itsura u
theolozada: ahhh ganun ba?
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: wala kameng webcam eh
psarenas: gnun nga
psarenas: kla q meron
theolozada: kaw nalang
theolozada: ptingin webcam mo
psarenas: cge
theolozada: haha
theolozada: lalaki k pla eh
psarenas: ou ah
theolozada: kala q gurl
psarenas: bkit kw
theolozada: lol
psarenas: haha
theolozada: makaparehas tau pare
theolozada: paano yan
psarenas: ah gnun b
theolozada: gwapo mo ah
theolozada: hahaha
psarenas: hnd nmam, d gusto u maguing fren
theolozada: haha
theolozada: aus lang
theolozada: wala pa ba kaung pasok ngaun?
psarenas: bkit wla kng cam
theolozada: eh home pc gamet namen eh
theolozada: tas di pa kame nakakabili ng webcam
psarenas: gnun b,kmi wla kc s house eh
theolozada: oo nga eh
theolozada: kta q netcafe nasa likod mo
psarenas: my tama k
theolozada: haha
theolozada: naglalaro ka netgames?
psarenas: my pic
psarenas: my pic k
theolozada: wala eh
theolozada: hehe
psarenas: ah gnun b
theolozada: fs siguro
psarenas: san k s davao
theolozada: sa lanang
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: bat ka nagtatanong?
psarenas: wla l;ngf
theolozada: haha
theolozada: kaw san ka sa nem?
psarenas: age u pla
theolozada: 16 ahaha
theolozada: mas matanda ka
psarenas: ang lau ng agwat
theolozada: kaw ba?
theolozada: 20 ka plang diba?
psarenas: hnd
theolozada: aw
theolozada: ano pla?
psarenas: 22
theolozada: aw
theolozada: haha
theolozada: kuya!
theolozada: haha
theolozada:
psarenas: ou nga
theolozada: graduate ka na?
psarenas: ou
theolozada: nung trabao mu ngaun?
psarenas: nghahanap plng]
theolozada: no pla cours mo?
psarenas: commerse
theolozada: ai saang college?
psarenas: up
theolozada: up?
theolozada: di nga?
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: galing a
psarenas: yes
theolozada: diliman?
psarenas: yes
psarenas: u
theolozada: eh bat la ka pa trabao ngaun?
psarenas: ngaabroad aq
theolozada: ahh
theolozada: wag na
theolozada: mas maganda di2 sa pinas
psarenas: qng my apportunity
theolozada: eh up ka eh
theolozada: siguro hahabulin ka naman
psarenas: gsto q mahal ang sweldo
theolozada: aw
theolozada: hehe
theolozada: so san mu plano pumunta?
psarenas: canada
theolozada: ahhh oo nga
theolozada: maganda dun


analysis:

Verbal Cues

In this conversation, we can clearly apply the theory of SIP. Though I haven't yet seen his face, i knew that he was bored and clearly not interested in the conversation. How did I know that? Through verbal cues. When a person only answers what you ask him, take a long time to answer, and doesn't propose topics himself, then we can assume that he is not that interested in the conversation. I however kept him going because I needed too. Somewhere in the middle of the conversation, things perked up a bit when he grew a little interested. He asked questions of his own and disclosed a little bit of himself. But at the end, he just clammed up so i figured the conversation was over.

Time taken to respond can also be taken as cues. When a person takes a long time to respond to you, then that means that he is not that interested in your conversation.

Extended time

IT took us two hours to exchange basic information( age, location, sex, job, alma mater) that would otherwise take only a few minutes in face-to-face conversation.

All in all, I say that we were successful in conversing, we discovered some things about each other that would make us acquaintances, same as in real life.